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Inferiority Complex




            A true characteristic of a pseudo alpha is their inferiority complex. This is when someone feels insignificant or fears humiliation. Usually as a result an individual will act aggressively through overcompensation. Doesn’t this make sense? With an inferiority complex there is no feeling at ease with someone else unless they think of themselves as superior.         
           
            The hard thing with an inferiority complex is that those who suffer from it have a hard time recognizing it. They already feel insignificant, so the process of taking accountability for something as embarrassing as this is tough. However I am here to say that I have seen others overcome it. It is possible to weed out this noxious disease.

            Most of us have experienced these types of feelings. So to think that this just fades away with age is false. The fact is, this attitude must be concisely worked on to be overcome. To think that achieving money or good looks will erase these feelings is foolish. The truth is those things will only make you feel superior to others.

            Many people confuse true alphaism by only looking at the appearance of it and letting that set the standard. Don’t do this. There is a trap in thinking what true alpha’s possess both materially and psychologically.  Sure they may obtain wealth, and appear to get what they want. These things were not just handed to them. If a person who has these things is a true alpha, these things came as a consequence of their hard work and diligence.

            True alpha’s are happy with the work they have done and want to do more. They frown on taking advantage of the weak. In fact they usually defend the weak, knowing that it is an alpha’s role to support his “pack”. This is another reason why pseudo alpha’s despise true alpha’s. Pseudo’s just prey on the weak and will do what they can to tear down the true alpha’s while falsely advertising their innocence. They may succeed and this is also why correcting an inferiority complex is last on their list.

            The crazy thing is when pseudo alpha’s rise to power they soon find that they are not accepted by stable, competent individuals. This is because they are willing to sacrifice their “pack’s” freedom in order to gain control.

            So what are some inferiority features on a pseudo alpha?
            He is the guy who is a one upper.
            He is the guy who exaggerates and lies about experiences with Women.
They are the individuals that push their opinions on people when they start feeling like their life experiences amount to nothing.
He is the guy who withholds help from others, knowing that he could really enable someone.
He is the guy who feels like he has to categorize and label others.
The list could go on for a very long time.

How do you take the steps towards ending this? It’s simple. Just start somewhere.
Sometimes you really have to fake it to make it, as long as the genuine sincerity to overcome the problem is present. Stop telling yourself that you are only inferior because you are not superior.

More to come. Stay tuned.

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