A true characteristic of a pseudo alpha is their inferiority complex. This
is when someone feels insignificant or fears humiliation. Usually as a result
an individual will act aggressively through overcompensation. Doesn’t this make
sense? With an inferiority complex there is no feeling at ease with someone
else unless they think of themselves as superior.
The hard
thing with an inferiority complex is that those who suffer from it have a hard
time recognizing it. They already feel insignificant, so the process of taking
accountability for something as embarrassing as this is tough. However I am
here to say that I have seen others overcome it. It is possible to weed out
this noxious disease.
Most of us
have experienced these types of feelings. So to think that this just fades away
with age is false. The fact is, this attitude must be concisely worked on to be
overcome. To think that achieving money or good looks will erase these feelings
is foolish. The truth is those things will only make you feel superior to
others.
Many people
confuse true alphaism by only looking at the appearance of it and letting that
set the standard. Don’t do this. There is a trap in thinking what true alpha’s
possess both materially and psychologically.
Sure they may obtain wealth, and appear to get what they want. These
things were not just handed to them. If a person who has these things is a true
alpha, these things came as a consequence of their hard work and diligence.
True alpha’s
are happy with the work they have done and want to do more. They frown on
taking advantage of the weak. In fact they usually defend the weak, knowing
that it is an alpha’s role to support his “pack”. This is another reason why
pseudo alpha’s despise true alpha’s. Pseudo’s just prey on the weak and will do
what they can to tear down the true alpha’s while falsely advertising their
innocence. They may succeed and this is also why correcting an inferiority
complex is last on their list.
The crazy
thing is when pseudo alpha’s rise to power they soon find that they are not
accepted by stable, competent individuals. This is because they are willing to
sacrifice their “pack’s” freedom in order to gain control.
So what are
some inferiority features on a pseudo alpha?
He is the
guy who is a one upper.
He is the
guy who exaggerates and lies about experiences with Women.
They are the individuals that push
their opinions on people when they start feeling like their life experiences
amount to nothing.
He is the guy who withholds help
from others, knowing that he could really enable someone.
He is the guy who feels like he has
to categorize and label others.
The list could go on for a very
long time.
How do you take the steps towards
ending this? It’s simple. Just start somewhere.
Sometimes you really have to fake it to make it, as long as
the genuine sincerity to overcome the problem is present. Stop telling yourself
that you are only inferior because you are not superior.
More to come. Stay tuned.
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