Over the last few years I have gained a lot of respect for
what my Male Ancestors did to preserve masculinity. My Male Ancestors went
through a lot to preserve masculine traditions. However by doing so they also
enabled the true feminists to practice the art of being feminine.
That’s
right, true feminism. Not this bra burning, beauty neglecting hags that want to
demand a title that they did not work for. Sure they are still human and
deserve the right to pursue happiness. However I may not see you as feminine no
matter how hard you try to convince me. This is Pseudo Feminism.
I am not
going to go into lengthy detail to define what True Feminism entails. Suffice
it to say that Men know real feminism when they see, hear, smell, taste and
touch it. The same standard applies to Women recognizing True Masculinity.
However this principle is under attack. It is a universal truth that cannot be modified.
It is easy to rationalize that instincts or our natural radar are not intelligent
enough to help us discern from false advertising. Natural radar is a muscle
that has to be strengthened in order to properly benefit from it. So why is
such an important muscle neglected and why would we overpower it by
rationalizing?
This is due
to a society that claims that both Men and Women should be ashamed of what they
naturally are. Before I say more about that let me clarify that I am a
religious person and I know that mankind has things that must be disciplined.
However my beliefs in God do not require that I shun my masculinity. In fact it
is plain to me that Men and Women were created as separate personages that
should embrace their God-given gender qualities to obtain real joy.
The principle of real joy has been trampled
under the feet of people who wish to propagate their own self interests and drove
their views to be seen as a new form of gospel. However the one thing that
cannot be overcome is the fact that each individual has been hard wired to know
when something doesn’t seem right. It is both sad and disturbing how so many
individuals are immersing themselves with this false gospel. In consequence,
these false ideas are being passed on to young impressionable minds.
As a result
many of the rising generation are unknowingly plagued by not being able to see
things in their true light. Many of the boys today that are crossing over into
manhood are being steered towards a false type of masculinity. Thus began the
rise of the Pseudo Alpha Male. Pseudo
means false, and alpha means one who is the dominant figure in a group or of
great significance or value . The effect of the pseudo alpha has proven to be
catastrophic. Men have been indoctrinated to think that it only takes money,
dominance and decent physical appearance for them to have an enjoyable life.
I am not saying that money,
dominance and good looks are a bad thing. However Men tend to overcompensate
for their insecurities and will use these things as a mask. Later on I will
dissect these things into more detail.
Pseudo
alpha’s are Men that have been raised and told that they should be ashamed of
being male and that Women do not find masculinity desirable. They might not
always have had this directly said to them but in some cases they have. Most of
the time this enters through various facets of media, a bitter family member or
friend, at school, etc;.
There comes a time in life that Men
will realize that they are free to think for themselves. It is what happens
after this realization that Men can either embrace the joy of being masculine
or continue to let others define this for them. I have chosen to embrace my
masculinity and the rewards have proven endless.
Keep in
mind that pseudo alpha’s have always been in existence. As long as Men have
insecurities, pseudo alpha’s will not cease to exist. The pseudo alpha’s that I
am targeting are the one’s that exist in modern times.
If you have
allowed others such as movies, the news media, a bitter family member, a school
teacher, etc… to victimize you, now is the time for you own up to this flaw of
allowing others to make life altering decisions for you. You are free to
choose. It is time to start exercising your natural radar and to begin living
in a world of truth. It may be intimidating, but do not allow yourself to think
that you are void of the necessary equipment. You will be better off seeing
things the way they truly are.
It is true that there are
individuals that have a serious mental ailment that impairs them, in these
cases professional treatment should be sought out. Should this be the case,
take comfort in knowing that there is no shame in getting help. In fact dealing
with such cases are difficult and I fully respect those who seek out
professional help. True joy will come from mastering tough problems. Do not let
other people make you feel inferior for facing such an obstacle. Joy requires
that individuals know themselves well. Start developing the confidence that
comes from being able to trust yourself by knowing your limits.
Before beginning
this journey there is a story that my Father once told me about the hazards of
believing a lie. This Cherokee legend is something to keep in mind if you are
tempted to continue on the paths of deception.
Many years ago, Indian youths would go away
in solitude to prepare for manhood. One such youth hiked into a beautiful
valley. There he fasted, and on the third day he decided to test himself
against the mountain. He put on his buffalo-hide shirt, threw his blanket over
his shoulders, and set off to climb the peak.
When he reached the top, he could see
forever, and his heart swelled with joy. Then he heard a rustle at his feet.
Looking down, he saw a snake. Before he could move, the snake spoke: “I am
about to die. It is too cold for me up here, and I am freezing. There is no food,
and I am starving. Put me under your shirt and take me down to the valley.”
“Oh, no,” said the youth. “I know your kind.
You are a rattlesnake. If I pick you up, you will bite me, and I will die.”
“Not so,” said the snake. “I will treat you
differently. If you do this for me, you will be special. I will not harm you.”
The youth withstood for a while, but this
was a very persuasive snake with beautiful markings. At last the youth tucked
it under his shirt and carried it down to the valley. There he laid it gently
on the grass. Suddenly, the snake coiled, rattled, and struck, biting him on
the leg.
“But you promised—” cried the youth.
“You knew what I was when you picked me up,”
said the snake as it slithered away.
You are capable of discerning the
truth from deception. Sadly there are those who hear these words and think that
they are void from deception. Than there are the individuals who are so wrapped
up in appearance that they will only act on correcting these things if it is
fashionable.
It is impossible to predict the
future. So I cannot tell you what to fully expect. One thing to note is that
the delivery may be unpredictable but the patterns and principles of deception
are immovable. Once you start to pick up on deception do not alienate those who
participate. It is tempting to categorize, label and make final decisions on
people that deceive. Your presence and example can help others, especially the
rising generation of pseudo alpha’s.
More posts are to follow. Stay
tuned.
